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Age: 27
Gender: Male
Topic: Sexology
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Location: Delhi

I masturbate at least twice a day.. Is that normal?

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Dear User, for us to have a better understanding of your health issue, please answer this question. Which of the following are you most concerned about?
Dear User, for us to have a better understanding of your health issue, please answer this question. Which of the following are you most concerned about? Excessive masturbation
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Are you sexually active?
Are you sexually active? No
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Since When are you having this problem?
Since When are you having this problem? Almost 10 years
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Do you have any of these conditions?
Do you have any of these conditions? None
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Do you have any of the following habits (Smoking/ Alcohol/ Drugs)?
Do you have any of the following habits (Smoking/ Alcohol/ Drugs)? None
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What is your current height?,What is your current weight?
What is your current height? 5ft7in(172cms) cm What is your current weight? 78.0 kg
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Do you take any allergy medication for cold and cough?
Do you take any allergy medication for cold and cough? No
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Hello Hxxxxxx . Dr. xxxxxi who is our best specialist for treating ⭐MASTURBATION related issues⭐ will take up your case.
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Good Evening! I am here to help you, please tell me more about your problem.
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not Normal
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Can we discuss on call?
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Are you there? I am waiting for your response.
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Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity. We recommend masturbation 3-5 times a week an average.
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When masturbation is compulsion or it is done at cost of daily routine or study or work and consumes important time of the day, it is problematic then.
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You can reduce masturbation with behavioural modification. Keep a diary or calendar and decide duration and frequency of masturbation you find suitable every sunday. Write it down. Try to stick with it. Next week when you feel to masturbate just see the schedule if it says yes then do it or else avoid masturbation and make your self ready to attend some other activity. Gradually every week or 2 weeks try to reduce further.
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If this does not work alone, medicines can help One medicine is Fluoxetine which reduces masturbation thoughts and desire. It is to be taken daily Other one is clonazepam or Etizolam which you have to put below tongue when you resist masturbation and feels restless or anxiety.Not necessary to take daily.
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You can ask if any doubt or confusion and we can discuss on call also if you are comfortable
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Can we discuss on call?
Yes we can discuss
But not now
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then?
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when can we discuss on call?
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I will not be available to call now till 9 pm..
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then we can discuss on call
Yes we can talk after 9 or tomorrow
My penis is a bit curved.. Is that also because of excessive masturbation
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Furthermore i am was not able to satisfy my sexual partners.. Is that because of my dick size or is it because i cannot perform for a longer duration
In any case is there some trick to improve both.. My dick size and my performance time?
You there?
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I am busy
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we can discuss on call in details after 9 pm
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before
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if possible give me some information so I can understand your problem better
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Please answer few questions so I can guide you in right direction for your sex related problem. 1..Are you married? If yes duration of marriage? If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and which circumstances you do sex? 2..How did problem start? Any specific incidence was there? 3...Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse/sex? 4..Do you have any physical illness?if yes, Any medication? 5..How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there? 6..Is morning erection present when you wake up from sleep ? 7..Is smoking or alcohol?if yes, duration you are taking, frequency per week or per month and quantity? 8..Is there any difficulty in urinating? 9...When did you do successful intercourse last? 10...Is there any history of masturbation? If yes, how was pleasure/orgasm during masturbation? 11...How many time you do sex and masturbation per week or per month? 12..How much duration do you last before ejaculation? Do you ejaculate before your partner reaches orgasm? 13..what is your size of penis in flaccid state and in erect state?
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hello
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can I call you after 10 to 15 minutes?
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Are you there? I am waiting for your response.
Can we talk tomorrow?
Meanwhile I'll answer your questions on chat
Stuck somewhere.. Cannot talk over phone
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ok
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GN for a while
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will discuss on call tomorrow
Please answer few questions so I can guide you in right direction for your sex related problem. 1..Are you married? If yes duration of marriage? If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and which circumstances you do sex? Not married.. I used to have sex with her in my room 2..How did problem start? Any specific incidence was there? Not really.. The problem was there from the beginning 3...Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse/sex? Yes.. Because i begin to lose my erection very soon.. For example even if i am putting on condom on my erect penis.. I feel like i am loosing my erection 4..Do you have any physical illness?if yes, Any medication? Have high level of uric acid for which have to take medication. Furthermore i catch cold very frequently.. I sneeze multiple times after having sex 5..How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there? Currently i am not in any relationship.. But such problem were never there 6..Is morning erection present when you wake up from sleep ? Very rarely 7..Is smoking or alcohol?if yes, duration you are taking, frequency per week or per month and quantity? Hardly drink once a month. 8..Is there any difficulty in urinating? Not really 9...When did you do successful intercourse last? 6 months ago 10...Is there any history of masturbation? If yes, how was pleasure/orgasm during masturbation? After my breakup i started masturbating very frequently... 11...How many time you do sex and masturbation per week or per month? Currently i masturbate at least 2 times a day.. Sex life is not active currently 12..How much duration do you last before ejaculation? Do you ejaculate before your partner reaches orgasm? I last almost 10 minutes.. Sometimes yes i cum before her 13..what is your size of penis in flaccid state and in erect state? Flaccid - 3.5 inches Erect - 4.5 inches
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Thanks for information.
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your problem is more masturbation..
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and performance anxiety
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presence of masturbation means there is no physical problem
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Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity. We recommend masturbation 3-5 times a week an average.
Dr.
When masturbation is compulsion or it is done at cost of daily routine or study or work and consumes important time of the day, it is problematic then.
Dr.
You can reduce masturbation with behavioural modification. Keep a diary or calendar and decide duration and frequency of masturbation you find suitable every sunday. Write it down. Try to stick with it. Next week when you feel to masturbate just see the schedule if it says yes then do it or else avoid masturbation and make your self ready to attend some other activity. Gradually every week or 2 weeks try to reduce further.
Dr.
If this does not work alone, medicines can help One medicine is Fluoxetine which reduces masturbation thoughts and desire. It is to be taken daily Other one is clonazepam or Etizolam which you have to put below tongue when you resist masturbation and feels restless or anxiety.Not necessary to take daily.
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reducing masturbation will improve your erection
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your size is normal
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Let me clarify about size of penis. Normal size of penis in flaccid(normal) state is 2 to 4 inches (5 to 10 cm)... sometime it can be 1.5 inches also.... while in erect position 3.5 to 6 inches (9 to 15 cm). It varies according to body structure, genetics and race. It is not related to height or masturbation habit.. Size of penis does not matter much for satisfying partner. Maximum anterior 3 inches of female vaginal wall is sensitive to sexual stimuli. Only 3.5 inches of erect penis is more than sufficient to satisfy female. As such there are lots of creams and pills are marketed for penis enlargement. But nothing is scientifically approved and useful in reality. In this field I am working since many years but till date only surgery and testosterone therapy are useful for this. As such there is no medicine which can increase basic natural size of penis. Note: There are pills which can increase size of penis if there is erectile dysfunction(means erection is not proper) 5- PDE inhibitor group of medicines are used for this purpose which includes sildenafil or tadalafil. It is proven drug for male erectile dysfunction.
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Minimum 3.5 inches required for sex life. Average indian size is 4 to 5 inches. Your size is normal. With this size you can have normal sex life. Not to worry.
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your time also enough
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average sex time is 3 to 8 minutes
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and
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avoid performance anxiety during sex
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Brain has sex centre which sends signals to penis for erection. This sex center is stimulated by any visual stimuli, fantasies or with partner touch. Erection to be remaining constant sex center should be in stimulated mode. While doing sex if any kind of thoughts like “Will I be able to satisfy my partner today? Will my erection be last proper? Is my erection is there or not? Is it proper erection?” etc as well as more than 30-45 seconds transition time from foreplay to insertion penis is there then sex center loses its stimulation due to lack of arousal. So signals for erection to penis are also lost and penis becomes loose.
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To overcome this problem you should not remove your underwear during foreplay. When you feel that there is sufficient erection or your partner feels the same just proceed for the insertion without delay after removing underwear. If you are using condom, keep condom in ready to wear position near to bed before starting the sex so no time is wasted in getting condom and opening it. After removing underwear, during wearing condom and till you insert completely and start stroking keep your sex center aroused by touching your partners parts(breast) or whatever the way you comfortable or your partner can do something like kissing you or touching your some body part by which you feel aroused. During this process try to enjoy and avoid thinking about erection or success of sex or watching erection consciously or feeling erection consciously with attention. Even after insertion of penis continue the same feelings and your both hands are free so you can have more chance to arouse yourself by touching your partner the way you like. After few strokes it will be easy to maintain erection. Ultimately try to enjoy without apprehension of erection or success of sex.
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before 11 am
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Most of the penis bent/tilted one side due to its middle position. As such it is normal. Banana shape curve is also normal. When it is hockey shape intervention is required.
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Please do not hesitate to ask your doubt or query.
Thanks... Penis is not that curved.. I guess that is normal..
Does tadafil have any side effects?
One more thing i was curious about was i use some kind of lubricant while masturbating
Is that ok or should i stop using it.?
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