PATIENT PROFILE
Age: 0
Gender: Male
Topic: Psychiatry
Chat Rating: star star star star star_half
Location: Visakhapatnam

Mrs. xxxx is available. You can discuss your issues with the Doctor. View Doctor Profile

Dr.
Good Morning xxxx! I am here to help you, please tell me more about your problem.
good morning mam, my name is xxxx am married since 2 years and now am facing some problem with my wife actually our sex life is not good and the problem is with me ,so am worried about this
Dr.
Ok
Dr.
What is the problem
Dr.
Could you elaborate
whenever am asking to her she's telling to me it's okay she didn't complaint about this, but recently I found some changes in behaviour also .
she's working in a company, and recently I found an a unwanted chat in her phone with her colleague but he's very old so am just confused and am sure onething that she won't go with him or like that but am really worrie about someotherthing
Dr.
Please tell me clearly
Dr.
This does not make sense
I don't know how to say this completely
Dr.
Ok
as she's not complaining to me regarding this is it because she's not interested me for physical relation
as she's not complaining to me regarding this is it because she's not interested me for physical relation
Dr.
What is your problem when you said that the issue was with you
Dr.
Why can't you have physical relationship
is there any chance to get a desire on another man,because right now I have some doubt but same confused as he was very old..
Dr.
Please answer the questions, I will lead the conversation
I am not able to have physical relation well and I was under treatment for this past 8 month but it didn't help
I am not able to have physical relation well and I was under treatment for this past 8 month but it didn't help
Dr.
And then I will respond to yours
Dr.
So what is the problem that you are taking treatment for 8 monthd
erectile dysfunction. .
Dr.
Ok
Dr.
How old are you
28
emotionally she's very supportive and caring she dint complaint
Dr.
Good
Dr.
That's nice
Dr.
Now why do you think you have erectile dysfunction
Dr.
The main symptom is a man's inability to get or keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.
because all the time am not able to satisfy her and nowadays it become very less and my not sure that now she's interested or what
it's not hard enough to have penetration..
Dr.
Do you masturbate
yes that's the only way for me nowadays
Dr.
So when you think of masturbation, do you have erection
yes but sometimes that thickness won't be there
Dr.
Ok
so without physical relation will she be happy, is it possible without having that.
Dr.
Ok
Dr.
Physical relationship need not necessarily be just coital sex
that means ?
Dr.
You can indulge in foreplay
mam ,but nowadays it become very less and as I told her behavior got change but she's Good with me
Dr.
Coital sex means intercourse
Dr.
Practice foreplay
I have one doubt is there any chance of getting that desire to other man for her
Dr.
And you can also have oral sex
I have some doubt don't know how to say to everyone
Dr.
Tell me your doubt
she's working and I found few message in her phone which is not that good like that guy commented about her figure and dress and she responded positively, but he's very old too
that guy is working with her ,so whenever I ask about that conversation she's trying to escape from that and telling something else so am disturbed
Dr.
Ok
Dr.
Suspicious is it?
am sure about one thing that she won't cheat me emotionally like she will go away from me but am confused about this
yes..
mam ,I really don't know to whom I should share this to counselor like you or sexolgist. ?
Dr.
See, all of like if we are complimentef
Dr.
So the colleague may be just commenting
Dr.
So that does not mean she is cheating on youl
Dr.
Trust your wife
Dr.
Its important
but she's responded flirty way before she was not like that
Dr.
If you are in doubt , please ask her to clarify
recently her sense dressing got changed so many things
recently her sense dressing got changed so many things
recently her sense dressing got changed so many things
Dr.
Flirting is harmless
Dr.
Its ok
I know problem with me also
Dr.
Please learn to talk to your wife
Dr.
If she is attracted to her colleague, then she need to admit it
I trust her she's very supportive but I always fail to satisfy
but he's very old there only am confused
but he's very old there only am confused
does she can have just physical relation without any emotional attachement is it possible and I don't know it's cheating or not
if her colleague is just young as our age then definitely I can say something but here he's very old so I don't know how to think
if her colleague is just young as our age then definitely I can say something but here he's very old so I don't know how to think
Dr.
Yes, it is possible to have just sex without any emotions
Dr.
Age is not a factor
Dr.
Women are attracted through emotions and not physical attributes
Dr.
But , if you wife is attracted to her colleague, only she can answer
she's just 27 and he's 50 plus,if she's attracted will that lead to sex
she's attracted because her changes in character but I don't know how to lead this conversation with her ,she's very good with me now also..
Dr.
No, everything does not lead to sex
Dr.
Be open and honest
Dr.
Just discuss with calm mind
emotionally she won't cheat but as am not capable am worried
Dr.
Find out if she is physically attracted
if I spoke to her and if she say yes what should I do how to deal
Dr.
Fir that you can indulge in pleasing her through foreplay
Dr.
Finger technique
Dr.
Instead of penis , use your fingers
Dr.
Also oral sex
if I spoke to her and if she say yes what should I do how to deal
mam for last 2 year I was having this type only but now she's not showing that the much interst
from last few months she's not interested in oral I don't know why when I ask to her said she responded like now no need
how to deal with this further
Dr.
We need to get on a call and discuss this
okey
should I call ?
Dr.
Can we get on a call
text is okey ?because am confused
Dr.
Ok
Dr.
Tell me what are you confused about
I just have one doubt mam
if she' s physically interested does that lead to sex I respective of age of him
am confused regarding that will she keep any physical relation with that old man without any emotional
am confused regarding that will she keep any physical relation with that old man without any emotional
last 2 year I couldn't make her happy on that
what If she say yes if ask to her .
Dr.
All the people who have one night stands
Dr.
Do not fall in love
Dr.
Its purely physical
Dr.
Please do not speculate what your wife will do or not do
Dr.
You do not know what she is feeling
Dr.
Again , marriage is not all about sec
Dr.
Sec
Dr.
Sex
but doctor she's just 27 age married and hes old enough
honestly I can say one thing emotionally she's good to me and caring too but physically she not interested now
Dr.
If that was the case then your wife wouldn't wait for 2 years
Dr.
Age has nothing to do with sex
Dr.
Why a 50 years old man should not have sex
Dr.
You are over imagining the situation
Dr.
You are imagining your wife with her colleague
Dr.
Your mind is playing tricks on you
Dr.
Let's connect on call tomorrow. I have to cater to other clients as well.
Dr.
I can make you understand better on a call
yes am I don't know why a different feeling and I I can't hate her
Dr.
Because you know your wife is not like that
is it possible to give a call today
Dr.
No, not today
Dr.
I will definitely connect with you tomorrow
you told know about one night stand have one doubt on that
Dr.
Tel me
if it's one night stand means that will happen only once or they continue in this type of relation
I didn't say like that she look very good and he's old enough not that good looking he's just a fat so am just wondering how she fall to this
I didn't say like that she look very good and he's old enough not that good looking he's just a fat so am just wondering how she fall to this
Dr.
It could be only once
Dr.
Please do not think of this matter so much
Dr.
It will only spoil your day
Dr.
Talk to your wife
I spoke to her mam she's keeping silent trying to escape
she also don't want me to see in this situation. mistake is in my side
Dr.
Tell her you saw the messages
Dr.
And you do not know what to do
she knew about the message but she's not admitting anything. .
yes I don't know you are right am just imagining her with him. .
Dr.
Yes
I can't leave her and she also won't leave me that am sure.
though she's having that relation with him how she's being very happy with me emotionally
Dr.
How do you know she is in a relationship
Dr.
Did she tell you
Dr.
You are basing the whole thing on just a chat
one day I have seen that type of msg, he gifted her unwanted dress to her on bday I came to know through that msg
not one chat mam. .
one day I have seen that type of msg, he gifted her unwanted dress to her on bday I came to know through that msg
not one chat mam. .
Dr.
Ask your wife about it
she's denying that so easily
she's telling it's just for fun he gifted nothing much .so am helpless
okay sure mam
but one thing
thank you
Dr.
Do you have any doubts or wish to share anything more?
Continue Reading...

  37 + Online Consultations taken for “ Psychiatry

Online Psychiatry doctors near you
Similar questions asked about “ Psychiatry