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Age: 22
Gender: Male
Topic: Psychiatry
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Location: Delhi

I am emotionally, physically, mentally drained . I don't feel anything socially detached. too much lethargic.. no motivation to change no hope . just idle at one place .. I am not the same energetic, determined, as before .

Dr.
Hi xxxx , Ms. xxxx will take up your case.
Dr.
Good Afternoon xxxx! I am here to help you, please tell me more about your problem.
I am not the same like before, I mean I am not determined, lost will power, lost motivation ..
Dr.
Okay
Dr.
Would you like to discuss this over a call
that's absolutely okay
no ma'am I can't discuss it over call .. I will be more comfortable texting .. if it's okay with u
Dr.
You available now right?
yes ma'am
Dr.
It's okay with me
Dr.
No problem
thank u for understanding
so where should I start from
Dr.
So what I gather is you are feeling less motivated to do anything
Dr.
You feeling detached from your friends and family r
Dr.
Since when are you having this problem ?
yeah .. lethargic .. no social interaction ... I like being isolated
Dr.
Okay
it's been a year almost
Dr.
Any particular stress causing this this xxxx
there are many actually
Dr.
Okay like
but I don't know where to start from
Dr.
Tell me what bothers you the most
my career
financially
Dr.
Okay
Dr.
What about your career
shall I tell u the whole story so that I can understand it better??
*u
Dr.
Just brief me about it
Dr.
You there?
okay back in 2012 I had a heartbreak .. so I went kinda in depression and moved to drugs.. 2014 I started my college as a btech student and involved myself with negative people .. 2016 my dad got sudden retirement.
and my house fell apart financially
Dr.
Okay
so I started taking up tutions and manage financially
Dr.
Okay
but in 2018 begining I had another heartbreak
due to which I couldn't focus on my placements and was lost all the time was finding about myself
I was qualified in all the companies but couldn't qualify HR
Dr.
Okay
so finally I had joined Paytm as a social media executive .. but it was not the job I had desired for
Dr.
Okay
because I have to look after my parents and a younger brother
Dr.
So currently you are not working?
I am working
Dr.
Okay
but I want to change my job .. but the enthusiasm , energy, and motivation I had before .. is completely gone ..
Dr.
Okay
as if I am walking dead
Dr.
I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I can imagine it must be really difficult
I started realising that I am emotionally, physically, mentally drained out
Dr.
xxxx, I can understand that the life is difficult and taking toll on you
Dr.
Okay
thank you so much ma'am for listening to me ..
Dr.
No problem xxxx
Dr.
I understand it must be difficult
I don't feel strength in my body, don't feel hungry, no thirst nothing ..
Dr.
Tell me one thing, what is your plan for now
Dr.
I understand
I get irritated very soon
I want to appear for gate because that's the only way I can escape
Dr.
Escape from
escape from my present situation .. because I don't have good grades in college and I don't know about what I had studied in college
because I was stressed all the time
no focus in studies
Dr.
Okay
will I be okay ?
Dr.
xxxx see let me tell you few things... Your plan is nice however unfortunately there is no escape from problems
get my life back ?
Dr.
Problems are gonna be part of life
Dr.
However they are just part of it
Dr.
Your life is beyond problems
Dr.
I understand at times things does not happen the way we wish for
Dr.
Or the way they should
true ma'am
Dr.
But stopping yourself is not a solution
Dr.
I will ask you a simple question here
sure
Dr.
Imagine you have a bike and today morning when you were taking it out, I was having difficulty in starting.. you left bike in the same state... Or will try to use kick, self start couple of times and check it's fuel and chain and other part, to understand where the problem is
Dr.
When we face the problems we can just leave everything, we have to understand what the problem is and gear up and fight
Dr.
Your plan will definitely work when you have courage to fight for iy
Yess .. ma'am that's the thing .. I have never stopped fighting .. also during the crisis at home .. I had to do part time tutions, been a delivery boy for dominoes pizza .. been a service boy at a game parlour along with my college life
Dr.
That's right xxxx
Dr.
And you should not stop now also xxxx
Dr.
Hard work never goes out of style
so where should I start from
Dr.
It's the one thing which is gonna stay with you
Dr.
Start with making a plan
Dr.
Correcting what you missed last few months
never ever .. and the best part is I have never told my parents about it .. coz they are old and there's a huge generation gap
Dr.
By working towards your goals
Dr.
That's great xxxx
Dr.
There are so many things to learn from you
is it ?
Dr.
At the age of 22, you know how to take responsibility and how to fight
Dr.
Yes indeed
Dr.
Stay the same way... Don't let problems take over you
I have not been home since last two years
Dr.
You stay away from your family
yes quite far away
Dr.
Okay
i am from Jamshedpur
did my college in dehradun
Dr.
So why you don't go to meet them
and now I am in Noida
Dr.
Okay
because I want to see them happy when I go home
they have been through a lot because of me
Dr.
That's your call xxxx
Dr.
But your parents will be definitely happy to see you
Dr.
Try and visit them
Dr.
I am sure they will find a way to forgive you
Dr.
And if not then you know they need some time
I wish .. I have a dream that after fighting through all this when I go up to a stage when they will be proud of me . I will go back home on a bike travelling through all the cities
Dr.
Okay
Dr.
Start working on your plan then xxxx
sure ..
that's my first step to my rebirth
Dr.
Yes
one more thing
I have made plans a lot but I do it for a day or two and then stop
Dr.
Yes
Dr.
Consistency?
upto two days max
Dr.
No plan is successful without consistency xxxx
Dr.
Not all plans come true, but the one which you really wish to achieve you have to give your best
Dr.
One or two days are not gonna make any difference
Dr.
Once you push yourself a bit, and make it as a habit
Yess.. do u recommend any medicine or something?
Dr.
It will be successful
Dr.
I can't prescribe any medication xxxx...
Dr.
But as of now I don't see any need also
Dr.
As I said just push yourself a bit
Dr.
Everything will work on its own
thank u ..for listening..
Dr.
No problem
Dr.
I hope you have the answers you were looking for, do check in with me tomorrow if any new questions come up.
Dr.
All the best xxxx
sure sure .. I have got my answers ..
thank u
Dr.
Start working on your plans
Dr.
If you need any guidance, I am just a message away
Dr.
Take care
thank u so much ma'am
Dr.
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