PATIENT PROFILE
Age: 32
Gender: Male
Topic: Psychiatry
SubTopic: Anxiety
Chat Rating: star star star star_border star_border
Location: Mumbai

high stress of office work and affecting personal life

Dr.
Hello xxxx, Welcome to DocsApp! I am the doctor’s assistant. Before your consultation with the doctor starts, it is important that you answer the following questions.
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Do you have any of the following conditions?
Do you have any of the following conditions? None
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Which of the following is affected due to your condition?
Which of the following is affected due to your condition? Sleep
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Hi xxxx , Ms. xxxx will take up your case.
Hii doctor good evening
I have to chat wirh you to discuss on issues relating to stress in office my home my health
Same is affecting my productive work and health
Dr.
Good Evening xxxx
Good evening doc
Ok sure can I just mention points I want to cover
Dr.
Yes please
hii doc me male 32 married and have daughter of 3.6 years. Working with pvt sector for 13 years I am facing following challenges 1) Unable to arrive at firm decision 2) Not happy with current job but unable to crack intw 3) stressful job life 4) neglecting health causing diabities 5) Diverted to sexual urges 6) Bad sex life as mostly tired due to stress 7) Lot of sexual thoughts but unable to perform good when actually have same
Dr.
Thank you for summing it up
ok
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Alright.
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That will be fine as well
Ok great
Dr.
Will this be a good time to call?
Will discuss on chat
Dr.
Ok no issues
I have discuss my topics
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Yes xxxx, you had told me about the difficulties
Dr.
Accordingly I can direct the session
Dr.
Can you tell me which is currently most distressing to you?
Distressing in my work as lack of motivation
sex life
Dr.
What is the work that you do?
I am in hr i do recruitment
Dr.
And by lack of motivation, can explain what you mean?
means work is not appreciated in appraisal not got promotion past 6 years after consistent good rating
Dr.
So you have been experiencing some stagnation at your workplace
Dr.
And can you explain what you mean by difficulties in sex life?
Yes I am working here 10 years in Reliance
sex life lack of time for sexual course so results in masturbation
Dr.
And lack of time due to time spent on job?
Yes dear
Dr.
Kindly understand that this is a professional relationship and keeping it so will allow me to help you
Dr.
Due to the work stress or problems related to sex, have you also been experiencing sadness?
Hmm yes doc
Plz help out doc I m having high sexual urges but no time for sex
Dr.
Not an issue xxxx
Dr.
How has your relationship with your wife been?
She is very good and nice wife but very devotional and more into mythology
She is working woman so she also come late home and tired
Dr.
I can imagine the frustration you must be experiencing
Yes doc so we don't have sex for long gaps
Dr.
How was your sex life before?
Before was very nice and active
Dr.
And the gaps that you were referring to, how long are they usually?
once in two or three months we are able to have sex or even involve in sex
Dr.
Which must be leading to some amount of dissatisfaction within you
Dr.
Kindly clarify this for me
Dr.
Is the demands of both your jobs the only reason for this?
Yes as I have housing loan of 55 lacs so her working supports me as she is self dependent for her expenses
Dr.
Have you communicated with her about how you have been feeling?
problem is I have huge gaps in sex and so when I have it I am not able to last for long
problem is I have huge gaps in sex and so when I have it I am not able to last for long
Hmm well as talk casually on same sometimes
Dr.
Alright xxxx
Dr.
For a healthy marital relationship, the sexual component is also very important
Yes doc
for healthy sexual component what should we do
Dr.
Maybe you can consider having a serious discussion with your partner regarding how you are feeling and what can be done about it
Dr.
Maybe keep some dedicated time aside during the weekend for it
Hmm ok does this sex affecting me other ways in work
Dr.
My apologies but I am not able to understand your question
Does lack of sexual satisfaction affecting my work performance
Also doc plz help me on few things related to sexual life if u can
Dr.
Lack of sexual satisfaction often leads to frustration
Dr.
Could also lead to anger issues, difficulty with attention and concentration
Yes may be doc happening same with me
Dr.
There could be multiple things affecting your work performance such as the job stagnation
Dr.
Difficulties in sex life may also be a contributory factor
Ok doc so what u will suggest me
Dr.
As I understand, both your partner and you have work commitments so we will have to work around these constraints
Dr.
The first step would be to communicate with your partner openly
ok noted
Dr.
And let her know what you have been thinking and how you have been feeling
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Second step would be to come up with a plan wherein at least some time is dedicated during the weekend to satisfy sexual needs
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This will be the short term management plan
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And during follow up sessions, we can start focusing on other issues as well
Okk doc noted
Will do as u said
Dr.
Ok xxxx.
should we try new things
or routine
Dr.
We can include that as well but maybe later on
Dr.
Immediately we need to focus on finding time for both your sexual needs
Dr.
You could also try spending some time with each other, just the two of you, like for example going to the park
Dr.
Or maybe a movie on the weekend
Ok good idea
May be movie will be fine
Dr.
Alright. You can do that along with the rest of the suggestions
Yes doc sure
Ok sure thanks a lot
Dr.
They will provide you a choice, if you want the next consult to be with me
Dr.
You are welcome xxxx
means
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When you want the next follow up, you will be able to select a follow up with me
Ohh ok doc
Dr.
Alright xxxx. All the best
Ok doc no issue I respect your restrictions
Dr.
Of course xxxx and all that we have discussed so far will be absolutely confidential
Yes I know same anyways let us interact again for followup session doc
Dr.
Ok xxxx
next session can we speak on phone also
Dr.
Yes, that will not be an issue
Ok u suggest me time accordingly I Will keep myself free
Sorry doc I wrongly wrote that word which annoyed u
Dr.
Not an issue xxxx
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